You think... because he doesn't love you, so you are not worthy... You think, because he doesn't want you anymore so he is right --on his judgement and opinion about you... If he throws you out, then you are garbage...?  You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him... ?

    Don't.....! It's a bad word, "belong". Especially when you put it with somebody you love...

    Love shouldn't be like this.. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can't even see the mountain because of clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? The mountain's head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, beacuse the clouds let him; they don't wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don't, do you? And neither does he. You're turning over your whole life to him. Think...your whole life, dear girl... And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can't value you if you can't value yourself.

So its very important to value yourself first to get the same from other person.